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Thursday, August 19, 2010

It'z Complicated


Last Sunday, was sooooo bored by noon that, I wanted to get out of the house and roam somewhere. Thought of watching Inception movie and then sat down to check if there were any tickets available. Just then, got a call from unknown number and picked up the phone asking who is this?
It was my cousin sister asking me as to why dint I visit their house in last 12 months +.. it was quite a long time and they had every reason to be angry on me. I assured them that I will come soon. But they asked me start then itself and come to their house. I was not ready to travel such a far distance during the noon time. She even said that, she will come back in her car to drop me back home. My parents asked me to go meet them and come.
I started off by 2-30PM and then went to the bus stand waiting for the bus. Since the journey was far, waited for AC BMTC bus to travel so that I could sleep nicely while travelling. Finally the TATA Marcopolo bus arrived at 3 PM and I got into the bus and sat in a seat just behind the door.
After couple of stops, there was a couple who got into the bus and the bus started moving. The couple looked very young and may be they were just married. The girl and the guy looked very good together and made a good looking couple. The guy was looking for the seats to sit in the bus and then he observed that there was empty double seats available only at the end of the bus. The guy asked the girl if they can go back and sit there in the end. The girl nodded her head saying no.
After another couple of stops, there got a seat empty just in front of the girl in the middle of the bus. The girl went ahead and sat in that seat where there was another guy sitting in the adjacent seat near the window. Then there got a double seat empty on the left side of the bus behind the driver facing backwards. The guy went there and sat left extreme near the window leaving his adjacent empty seat and starting looking at his wife. The wife also raised her head, looked at him and did not move from her seat at all.
Then later, there got another double seat empty in the middle and the wife went and sat on the right extreme near the window. The hubby came almost running towards the seat adjacent to hers. They both spoke couple of words and started looking at the opposite sides.
For a while it looked quite funny to me and made me laugh. The next day morning, when I thought about that incident I made certain conclusions on what had happened.
My Conclusion: Arranged marriage + Ego + Non understandbility + Non Sacrificing nature
I remember, there is no better foundation then friendship for a lifetime relationship and felt that it was missing in the first place in this scenario. The guy sacrificed his last row seat and stood in the middle of the bus just for his wife and she just goes ahead and sits next to another guy later :(. She did not even bother to move next to her hubby when he sat in the front seat facing backwards as well :O. I pity her hubby :(.
Given the kind of relationship they are in, they should be ready to sacrifice small small things for their better half. What is the point in living such a one sided life where only one person cares/sacrifies things for his better half and the other just does not compliment. The person will continue to do it for somemore time and if the other don't compliment, he/she will stop caring it self. In situations like this, the person can not go and complain about their relationship to anybody else because there is no more important person then their better half here. I believe the same thing applies for any relationship and if things are not in resonance then they are never stable :P.
Once you read till here, you might have some other conclusions on your mind. I will keep this forum open for such thoughts and request you to go ahead and make us aware from other dimensions as well :P :P :P

4 comments:

  1. I strongly feel that the girl sat next to you and her husband was fuming on you..! :D

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  2. may be she was beautiful otherwise y will Krishnaji observe so much ;D

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  3. Why don't we have a like option in Blogs...i was thinking in the same line as Manjunath...:P..Tell me the truth is he right...:P

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